Two Men, One Life: Choosing Spirit Over Flesh

Two Men, One Life: Choosing Spirit Over Flesh

Every believer lives with a strange tension—two men pulling in opposite directions within the same body. Not two identities, but two personas: the flesh man and the spirit man. The one is stubborn, self-preserving, and allergic to truth. The other is reborn in Christ, surrendered, and hungry for righteousness. This isn’t a metaphor; it’s reality. And the journey of sanctification is the daily decision to silence one and yield to the other.

Scripture teaches that the old man is already condemned. He cannot be rehabilitated. Romans 6:11 tells us to "reckon ye also yourselves to be dead indeed unto sin, but alive unto God through Jesus Christ our Lord." The flesh can’t be improved—it must be starved, reckoned dead, and displaced by the life of Christ. You don’t fight the flesh with willpower; you deny it fuel and make space for the Spirit.

Transformation doesn’t happen because we feel like changing—it comes as the Word renews our mind. Romans 12:2 urges, "And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind…" When truth gets into your heart, it rewires how you think, how you choose, and how you respond. The process is not instantaneous, but it is intentional. Without the Word, the default is always flesh. But with it, the Spirit gains influence—and the fruit of change begins to show.

Doctrine and Discernment (Intro): Balancing the Word

Doctrine and Discernment (Intro): Balancing the Word

Holding Truth and Heart Together

Truth matters. Grace matters. But too often, believers lean hard in one direction—either guarding doctrine with such precision that they forget the people it's meant to serve, or embracing relational kindness so freely that biblical clarity gets blurred. This series is an invitation to walk in both. Not one or the other. Both.

In Part 1, we’ll meet the Bereans of Acts 17:11—known not for their credentials, but for their consistency. They tested everything by the Word, daily and with care. It’s a picture of objective discernment, where conviction is built on Scripture, not assumption.

In Part 2, we’ll step into the tenderness of Romans 14, where Paul urges believers not to quarrel over disputable matters. Instead, he teaches us to honor the conscience, walk gently with the weak, and build each other up in love. It’s not compromise—it’s compassion.

Then in Part 3, we’ll bring it all together. Because maturity isn’t found in choosing between truth and heart—it’s found when we let Scripture shape both. That kind of balance produces believers who hold fast to what’s right but walk gently with those still growing.

In the next post we’ll start things off by walking alongside the Bereans in Acts 17—ordinary believers who searched the Scriptures daily with focus and humility. But this isn’t just about studying with precision. It’s about learning how clear doctrine can shape our love and deepen our walk with others. If you’ve ever wondered how to hold firm to truth while staying soft toward people, Part 1 will steady your convictions and stir your heart.

When Plans Trump Compassion: A Mirror to Our Faith

When Plans Trump Compassion: A Mirror to Our Faith

I had plans. Leave work. Hit the gym. Handle a few tasks. Kick up my feet and indulge in some well-earned rest.

But on that drive, I saw him—hands raised, desperation written across his face. His car had broken down. His wife tended to their child in the backseat. And me? I felt my heart close like a locked door.

I reasoned: “I’m not a mechanic.” I hoped my tinted windows would conceal my indecision. I didn’t stop. I didn’t even acknowledge him.

It took me days to realize I didn’t just ignore his problem—I ignored his humanity. Not because I lacked the ability to help, but because I didn’t want to risk my comfort. I could’ve offered five minutes of reassurance. Helped him make a call. Asked if he had someone en route. But I drove away, safeguarding my schedule instead of being a servant of grace.

We claim we live by a doctrine that edifies, uplifts, and reconciles—yet who are we edifying if we never pause to see, listen, or serve? How can we proclaim a self-sacrificing Savior while preserving our own agendas at all costs?

From Expectation to Dispensation: Peter’s Prophetic Shift

From Expectation to Dispensation: Peter’s Prophetic Shift

There’s a subtle but powerful dispensational insight in the way Peter’s letters frame the coming of the Lord. At first glance, 1 Peter and 2 Peter might seem like spiritual bookends—both speaking to suffering saints with hope—but a closer look reveals something far deeper: a prophetic shift, one that traces the unfolding of God’s plan from Kingdom expectation to grace dispensation.

“But the end of all things is at hand: be ye therefore sober, and watch unto prayer.” —1 Peter 4:7 (KJV)

In 1 Peter, written during a time when the offer of the Kingdom was still fresh in Israel’s memory, Peter urged the Kingdom believers to live with urgency. His words echo the question posed in Acts 1:6, “Lord, wilt thou at this time restore again the kingdom to Israel?” The apostles anticipated the imminent return of Christ in glory—to reign as King and fulfill the promises of Israel’s restoration. But Jesus answered, “It is not for you to know the times or the seasons…” (Acts 1:7)—a subtle indication that something else was about to unfold.

As Israel’s national rejection of their Messiah deepened, that Kingdom expectation was deferred. Not abandoned—but postponed. And in that divine pause, God revealed the mystery kept secret since the world began: the dispensation of the grace of God, entrusted to Paul for the Gentiles (Ephesians 3:1-6). A new heavenly calling emerged—the Body of Christ—not born of Law, lineage, or national covenant, but by faith alone, through grace alone.

Fast forward to 2 Peter, and the tone shifts.

(Part 2) Paul Taught with Affection: From information to transformation, truth is carried in love.

How Doctrine Walks, Loves, and Lives Among Us (Part 2)

This is not a traditional teaching laid out in flowing paragraphs—it’s a scriptural mosaic. It brings together verses and quotes that speak directly to the human heart, showing that truth was never meant to be cold or mechanical. This section aims to stir you through the Word itself, proving that sound doctrine is most powerful when carried by affection and rooted in human connection.

Having first seen that sound doctrine is not only taught but walked—modeled in the example of Christ Himself—this second part continues to build that foundation. Paul’s life and ministry show that doctrine operates best when delivered with affection, where truth finds its full reach not in lectures, but in lives intertwined. This section highlights how connection—rooted in love and expressed relationally—is not peripheral to teaching. It’s essential.

Paul Taught with Affection: From information to transformation, truth is carried in love.

Paul’s teaching wasn’t transactional—it was transformational, and that required presence. The affection he modeled reached beyond the pulpit into daily concern and mutual care.

“For I know your forwardness, of which I boast of you to them of Macedonia… And not by his coming only, but by the consolation wherewith he was comforted in you, when he told us your earnest desire, your mourning, your fervent mind toward me; so that I rejoiced the more.” — 2 Corinthians 7:4-7

This shows a ministry relationship that breathes—it feels disappointment, celebrates growth, and receives comfort from one another. Paul wasn’t just teaching them; he was moved by them.

“We give thanks to God always for you all, making mention of you in our prayers; Remembering without ceasing your work of faith, and labour of love, and patience of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ…” — 1 Thessalonians 1:2-3

True teaching remembers people’s names and seasons. It celebrates their spiritual labor, mourns their losses, and rejoices when Christ shines through them.

(Part 1) Jesus Walked the Doctrine: Truth isn’t just taught—it’s traveled.

 How Doctrine Walks, Loves, and Lives Among Us (Part 1)

Jesus Walked the Doctrine: Truth isn’t just taught—it’s traveled.

We often think of doctrine as something printed, preached, or parsed—but before it was proclaimed, it walked. Doctrine was never designed to remain cold in the pages of a scroll or clinical in a pulpit. It moved in sandaled feet, brushed against weary shoulders, lingered near grieving hearts, and burned quietly on unknown roads.

“And they heard the voice of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day…” — Genesis 3:8

Even in Eden, truth did not thunder—it walked. The Word didn’t stand distant; it approached. This is the earliest rhythm of divine engagement: God drawing near, not simply delivering instruction.

Fast-forward to John’s Gospel, and we see the culmination of this rhythm:

“And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.” — John 1:14

The Word dwelt—not floated. He didn't host seminars from heaven. He walked. He met people in marketplaces, in leper colonies, at wedding feasts, and along grieving roads. He made truth tangible.

“God’s Word is deeply personal—it chooses to walk, not just instruct.”