Love That Approves is the Heart of Discernment (Part 4)

Love That Approves is the Heart of Discernment (Part 4)

As we journey through this study, we’ve uncovered a compelling spiritual progression. In Part 1, we introduced the scale of the mind—caught between proving and reprobation. Part 2 explored the Greek roots of dokimazō and adokimos, revealing the tension between approval and rejection. Then in Part 3, we recognised that every believer lives in a season of probation—a time of testing, where the mind is being shaped by its response to truth. Now, we turn to a vital truth that undergirds the entire process: love is the key to approving rightly. Without love, discernment falters. Without love, judgment becomes harsh. But when love abounds in knowledge and judgment, the believer is equipped to prove what pleases God.

Love That Discerns

Paul’s prayer in Philippians 1:9-10 is both profound and practical:

“And this I pray, that your love may abound yet more and more in knowledge and in all judgment; That ye may approve things that are excellent…”

Here, love is not sentimental—it is intelligent. It is not blind—it is discerning. The Greek word for “judgment” (aisthēsis) speaks of moral insight, the ability to perceive what is spiritually valuable. And “approve” (dokimazō) again calls us to test and affirm what is excellent. But the condition is clear: love must abound first. Without love, knowledge becomes cold. Without love, judgment becomes critical. But when love abounds, the believer sees with clarity and responds with grace.

This is not a love that ignores truth—it is a love that seeks it. It is a love that discerns rightly because it desires what is good for others and what is pleasing to God. Paul does not separate love from doctrine—he binds them together. The more we love, the more we are able to judge rightly (discern wisely, or perceive clearly). And the more we judge rightly, the more we are able to approve what is excellent.

Living on Probation: The Season of Testing (Part 3)

Living on Probation: The Season of Testing (Part 3)

Before we continue, let us briefly recall the journey so far. In Part 1, we introduced the spiritual scale of the mind—a line stretching between proving and reprobation—and how every believer is called to discern and demonstrate the will of God. In Part 2, we examined the Greek roots of dokimazō (prove) and adokimos (reprobate), revealing how Paul’s language frames a divine test of the mind. Now, we turn to the space in between: the season of probation, where proving must take place and where the outcome is still being shaped.

Understanding Probation as a Season of Grace

Probation, in its biblical sense, is not a sentence of punishment but a season of opportunity. It is the time in which a person is given the chance to respond to truth, to walk in obedience, and to be found faithful. It is the state of being tested—not yet approved, not yet rejected. It is the tension of grace and responsibility. Webster’s 1828 Dictionary defines probation as “the state of man in the present life, in which he has the opportunity of proving his character and being qualified for a happier state.” This definition aligns beautifully with Scripture, which consistently presents life as a proving ground for the soul.

Though the word “probation” is not explicitly used in the Bible, the concept is woven throughout its pages. From Eden to the wilderness, from parables to epistles, God has always given His people time to choose, to yield, and to be tested.

The Important Meaning of “Prove” and “Reprobate” (Part 2)

The Important Meaning of “Prove” and “Reprobate” (Part 2)

See Part 1 here.

“That ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.” — Romans 12:2 (KJV) 

“God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient.” — Romans 1:28 (KJV)

These two words—prove and reprobate—represent not only two ends of a spiritual scale, but two pathways diverging in the heart of every believer. To understand them is to understand what God is seeking in those who follow Him—and what He sorrowfully abandons in those who turn away. Each word, in its origin and its usage, carries weight, purpose, and warning.

“Prove” – dokimazō

The Greek word translated “prove” in Romans 12:2 is dokimazō, which means to test, to examine, and to recognize something as genuine after scrutiny. This is not casual affirmation—it’s rigorous discernment that leads to spiritual confidence. Paul uses this word often to describe the responsibility of the renewed mind: to be spiritually perceptive, careful in judgment, and eager to affirm that which is good, acceptable, and perfect in God’s eyes.