The Quiet Glory of Forbearing: A Lesson from Paul’s Example

The Quiet Glory of Forbearing: A Lesson from Paul’s Example

In 1 Corinthians 9:4-18, Paul lays out a compelling doctrinal truth: those who labour in the gospel have a God-ordained right to receive material support. “Even so hath the Lord ordained that they which preach the gospel should live of the gospel” (v14). Yet Paul, though fully entitled to this provision, chooses to forbear it. Not out of pride. Not to prove a point. But to preserve the purity and power of the gospel’s witness.

This is not a command for all ministers to follow his exact path, but it is a lesson for every believer to consider the heart behind such a choice. Paul’s decision was not driven by fleshly effort or self-glory. He did not boast in his sacrifice, nor did he use it to elevate himself above others. “For though I preach the gospel, I have nothing to glory of: for necessity is laid upon me” (v16). His motive was love. His reward was the privilege of preaching Christ without charge, that no earthly entanglement might hinder the gospel’s reach (v18).

A lesson for laymen

While you may not be called to full-time ministry, you are called to the same spirit of voluntary restraint when it serves the gospel. Whether in finances, relationships, or personal liberties, there may be times when choosing not to exercise a right becomes a quiet act of faith. Not to be seen. Not to be praised. But to protect the testimony of Christ and to walk in love toward others.

Paul himself speaks of this restraint: “Nevertheless we have not used this power; but suffer all things, lest we should hinder the gospel of Christ” (v12). This is not merely a minister’s concern—it is a mindset every believer can adopt. Choosing not always what is permissible, but what best serves Christ’s testimony, is a quiet honour. The passage, though addressed to ministers, quietly invites all believers to consider how their choices—financial, relational, or practical—might either hinder or help the gospel’s progress. This is not legalism. It is not abstinence. It is not a work of the flesh. It is a work of faith, born of love, sustained by hope.

“He that ploweth should plow in hope; and he that thresheth in hope should be partaker of his hope” (v10). The believer must learn that the gospel is not advanced by rights demanded, but by lives surrendered. Paul’s example is not a burden—it is a privilege and a grace. A reminder that the greatest glory is not in what we gain, but in what we gladly give up for the sake of Christ.

Let this mind be in you. Let this love constrain you. Let this hope sustain you.

Additional reading: Philippians 2:3-8; Galatians 5:13; 2 Corinthians 6:3-10